Yes, this is something we are. Choices are not made for us, only by us. The beauty in making our own choices is that they are indeed our own and no one else's. This is why I truly believe we cannot deduce other's choices because, simply put, we are not them. We have not walked in their shoes. We do not live between their walls. We do not fully know the circumstances that brought them to making small or large life decisions. We can only support, love, pray and wish them well along their journey. Just as you would want them to wish you the same on yours. J.P. Sartre could not have stated it more simply nor beautifully.